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pressure can often be quite subtle -- something as simple
as a passing suggestion or a visual cue is sometimes all
kids need to feel pressure to experiment with negative
behaviors. Meeting, and then resisting the challenges
posed by peer pressure takes courage and skill. By spending
time with your children and teaching them the different
types of refusal lines they can use, they can decide which
one works best and avoid the pressure of the situation
without feeling foolish. By role-playing and practicing,
you can help them feel comfortable saying no. For example:
Humor:
“No, thanks. Cigarettes don’t
go with my outfit.”
“No, thanks. My boyfriend/girlfriend doesn’t
like kissing an ashtray.”
“No, thanks. I like my teeth white, not yellow.”
Reverse the pressure:
“Is this what you do to be cool?”
“I bet you can’t go a week without smoking.”
Ask a question:
“Why would I want to do something
that smells so bad?”
“Do you know any professional athletes that smoke?”
“Why would I want to do that to my lungs?”
Change the subject:
“No, thanks. Hey, have you seen
any good movies lately?”
Be direct:
“No, thanks. I’m
not into that.”
“I’d rather spend my money on other stuff.”
“No, thanks, I like being healthy.”
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