No matter what we do as
parents, we're never going to seem as cool to our
kids as the "cool kids" in school. Even so,
studies show that what we do and what we say can make
a dramatic difference in the choices our kids make. The
way we approach our children about this issue will be
most greatly influenced by their age. Studies also indicate
that children start experimenting with smoking as early
as age 8, with the majority being between the ages of
12 to 14. This statistic, while staggering, clearly emphasizes
that it's important to start talking early, and
to keep talking often about this critical issue. The suggestions
found here can help lead to insightful and beneficial
conversations and help develop a better understanding
between you and your child when it comes to not smoking.
On this site, you'll learn to:
- Talk to children without lecturing
- Listen to their answers without being judgmental or
critical
- Continually look for common ground where the two of
you can agree
- Keep the words and ideas you introduce on a level
your child can relate to and understand
- Touch on the consequences of their actions
Getting through to kids about the risks of smoking
requires asking good questions, making persuasive arguments
and talking candidly about the consequences. Be sure
to go beyond the long-term health risks of smoking and
touch on the short-term issues as well. By talking openly
and honestly, you can make a difference and help your
child see the benefits of leading a smoke-free life.
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